Christmas – sometimes a time of juxtaposition

At this time of the year there is a perception, especially where we live and work, that Christmas is a time that marks wonderment, holidays, travel, and in general a time of celebration for everyone. Sadly, the reality of Christmas can create quite contrary emotions.

For many families across our state, nation and globe, the concept of celebrations, shopping and spending, gift giving, and families coming together in community, can in fact remind many of what they do not have, more than what they do have.

In today's world some so-called leaders will still be resorting to the use of divisive and belittling language about humanity and many in the community who face multiple challenges.

There is an old saying that until you have walked in the shoes of others, then you will never really articulate what you have, or more importantly what others do not possess. Empathy is such an important emotion.

Empathy prompts Christians to consider the needs and concerns of others, and in essence is all about understanding and sharing other people's feelings.  The Bible is filled with verses that teach you how important it is to care for each other, to be compassionate, and to show kindness.

By embracing empathy, you can connect more deeply with others, offer your support, and make a positive impact on the world around you Philippians 2:4 (ESV) poses a challenge to us:

Let each of you look not only to his own interests, but also to the interests of others.

Hugh McKay, in The Kindness Revolution: How we can restore hope, rebuild trust, and inspire optimism, has this to say

Only those who have been on the receiving end of poverty, unemployment, homelessness, mental illness, domestic violence, racism, sexism, or ageism can fully identify with others' reactions to those distressing experiences. Only those who have been members of a marginalised minority can fully appreciate how that feels.

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Yes, it is important that we can enjoy and celebrate all the joys that Christmas will bring for our community. It is also important that we continue to look for ways to assist those who are not as fortunate either through thoughts or prayer.

Of course, many families give to the numerous Church Christmas Appeals, and no doubt other appeals in our community. Fortunately, this time of the year does bring the best out of humanity.

In a rapidly moving world, with many challenges, let us all take time to spend with those we most love, realising that it is the people in our lives who sustain us each day.

Merry Christmas

Dr Alec J O'Connell
Headmaster